North Carolina Trip: Highs & Lows

Evan and I headed to North Carolina for 4 days from Saturday February 21st until Tuesday February 24th... or so we thought. It was just a"quick trip" to see family... but a blizzard hit at home and we could not find a flight back home to the airport I had parked at until very, very late Friday February 27th and we arrived home at 2 am on February 28th. 

Evan had been asking to go down "one last time" to see his cousins before he starts college in the fall and we were able to make that happen. My sister, her husband, and her two teen/young adult sons had just moved in January and live much closer to my mom now so we figured this was the perfect time to go. I only had to pay for flights and my mom offered to chauffeur us around for the weekend plus got their spare bedrooms set up for us to stay with them. I thought this would be a cheap trip as well but added airfare costs, much longer parking at the airport, and filling our days with things to do added up quickly. 

We left Friday night to sleep at a hotel near the airport that included parking and a shuttle... only to find that the shuttle was a one way Lyft voucher. We slept horribly and found that when we woke Lyft still had not found us a driver. We drove ourselves and I parked in the parking garage; quickly calculating how much 4 days would cost us. 

Our flights were short and bumpy and we had an hour or so layover in Philly on our way from Providence to Wilmington. We arrived around lunch and headed out to Our Crepes & More. It was delicious!

 

I was so excited to see sweet tea on the menu; we don't have sweet tea in New England.

We visited with my sister and her family and saw their new house then headed back to my mom's for dinner. 

The next morning after breakfast Evan and I walked all around their neighborhood while my parents prepped food for a cook out. My family started arriving around 2-- both my sisters are/have families of 4 and my aunt & uncle live in the area too so we had 16 people gathered around my mom's kitchen island eating, talking, laughing and catching up since most of us hadn't seen each other in a few years. 

 






Monday we decided to tour the Bellamy museum with my sister and nephew. We did spend the morning with my parents touring nearby towns of South Port and Oak Island before heading to the mansion in the late afternoon. 

I spent the entire hour ride to the mansion trying to find us new flights home. We were supposed to fly home Tuesday afternoon but our flights were canceled since a blizzard hit the east coast. The airport we were flying into got over 3 feet of snow in 24 hours; in fact Alec's college canceled all in person classes/exams and let the students that could & wanted to start their spring break early (though the earliest Alec could get out of the city was Thursday). 











 
we ended almost every night playing board games
 

Tuesday we decided to head to the Cameron Art Museum since the earliest flight I could book us on to get back to Providence wasn't until Friday! We did some laundry in the morning and then headed to the museum around lunch. It ended up only taking 30 minutes and then we went to the Cotton Exchange for a late lunch. 


this glass art display was so neat!







Wednesday we decided to go on a nature walk with my aunt and then met her husband at Pizzetta's for a late lunch/early dinner. 
 
we walked around my parent's neighborhood in the morning 








playing Trivia Adventure

Thursday Evan declared he was having computer game withdrawals and decided to spend the afternoon at my sister's house with her sons who he often games with online from home. Meanwhile my aunt came to my parent's house with some games for the 5 of us to have a game day. By this point both Evan and I were getting extremely home sick... and we had to do yet another load of laundry. Boy did I ever wish I had packed more clothes/choices and things like my activity tracker charger, razor, shaving cream, laptop, etc. Things I never thought I'd need for a 4 day trip but after nearly a week I was kicking myself for that decision. 
 


 I had a horrible time trying to check in for our flight and ended up having to call the airline direct. After yelling HUMAN at the computer I finally got a representative on the line; turns out when the airline rebooked us they only linked one ticket to the flight! Luckily they were able to fix everything and I got us checked in with boarding passes downloaded to my phone.
 
Sadly, we woke to several message pinging the app the next morning that our first outbound flight was delayed... then it got pushed back again... and again... to where our first flight was landing AFTER the second flight was supposed to have landed us back home! I went and booked us on a direct flight home from another airline through Breeze for that same night and managed to get a refund for our delayed/canceled flight from American Airlines.  Since our flight wasn't until 9 and it was pouring rain we decided to head to the  bowling alley. 
 




After 2 rounds of bowling (only 4 of us actually bowled), we headed to my sister's house to visit then went back to my mom's for dinner. We played games after dinner until leaving for the airport. We planned to arrive around 7:45 for our 9:30 flight. 
 

We flew through check in and security... only to get a text message 5 minutes later that our flight was delayed an hour. We finally boarded and took off just a bit before 11 and landed in Providence at 1 am. While our parking garage charge was SO much larger than I had anticipated I was so thankful to be parked somewhat inside and not having to dig my car out from under several feet of snow. 
 
We climbed into the car and made it home at 2 am on the dot Saturday morning. I don't think I was ever so happy to be back in my own bed before.
 
Of course we had a wonderful time with the family and it was nice to get to see almost everyone a few times (my youngest sister and her family live further away and both work full time so we only saw them once) but it was definitely stressful dealing with the airlines and canceled flights as well as knowing what everyone back home was dealing with. It was one trip I'm sure Evan and I will never forget! 

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  1. Oh my! What an ordeal/adventure! This trip will make family lore and will be talked about for a long time!! I'm so sorry you got stuck there (though being with family, obviously it wasn't like something terrible...). It sounds super stressful yet you seemed to redeem the time/situation and find lots of nice things to do. I'll bet your bed never felt so good! Have a great Monday!

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    1. It was quite the ordeal but I am so glad we got stuck in North Carolina with family and not in an obscure airport somewhere else.

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  2. Despite all the stress with travel, what great quality time you had with your family. I saw folks doing the same thing while we were away- it pummeled everyone in the northeast- not fun!

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    1. It did give us extra quality time; my mom kept saying she felt bad for us but was glad she got to have us in the house a bit longer.

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  3. What a rollercoaster! You got more family time that you bargained for but the weather there looked great (or at least better than at home) and it looks like a pretty area with lots to do!

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  4. Well it will be a much talked about memory as the years go by. It's hard to relax when you have the anxiety of all the delays and cancellations and re-bookings hanging over you. Sounds like you made the most of your time with family and seeing things nearby. I know you're happy to be home!! Welcome back!

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    1. It was hard to relax, but I tried to remember that so much was out of my control and worrying wasn't going to help.

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  5. As someone whose travel plans get changed all the time these days, you just have to go with the flow! At least you had somewhere to stay and didn't have to pay for a hotel too. The crepes look good and the museums too.

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    1. We really have lucked out that this is the first time our travel plans have changed so much; sometimes a flight time gets moved up and it makes for a stressful connection but we've never missed or had a canceled flight before so I can say we've been pretty lucky! I am so glad we had somewhere to stay and didn't have to pay extra for a hotel too.

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  6. It sounds like a great trip even if it was extended. How lovely to see your family and Bellamy museum looks fantastic!
    The art work in the museum is stunning! I am glad you got home safely eventually.

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    1. Thank you! I do think we did ALL the indoor activities we could find in the entire area and we enjoyed them.

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  7. Well despite the unexpected longer stay, at least it was with family. That blizzard really caused major delays in air travel. I was intrigued with the crepe place offering gluten free and vegan crepes- that's for me!! Looks like you had.a wonderful but stressful time.

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    1. Yes, I thought the crepe place did a great job trying to accommodate all diets/restrictions. It was decorated so cute with all sorts of France themed things too.

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  8. I hate flying and dealing with canceled flights and delays. It can be so frustrating! Did you think about renting a car and driving home once the weather cleared?

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    1. I did think of renting a car but not until Thursday or Friday and then it takes a good day and a half of driving so we still wouldn't have made it home any quicker. (IF I had thought to do that on Tuesday it would have worked to our advantage).

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  9. Airports and flying have become really stressful. I'm glad you got to see family and spend time with them, but it does sound like a trip that dragged on quite a while. Glad you're home safe and sound. #MMBC

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    1. They really have! My anxiety goes through the roof when we have to travel by plane and I don't typically relax until we're taking off.

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  10. I'm glad you eventually got home and yes, this will be a trip for the memory books for sure!

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    1. Absolutely! My mom is afraid it will make us never want to visit again. LOL

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  11. That blizzard really came out of nowhere!!

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  12. Oh, friend, I understand that homesick feeling. I'm so glad you're home. 💙✈️

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  13. Wow...talk about calamaties...the weather can make it so challenging.
    But yay for family and at least you weren't stuck at the airport.
    OXOX
    Jodie

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    1. That's the one thought that kept me sane through the whole thing! Being with family was FAR preferable to being stuck in an airport somewhere.

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  14. Time with family will erase the hassles of travel arrangements that you have no control over.....I loved the art museum photos.

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  15. It really is crazy to think about the fact that even with all our modern machines and technology, we're still at the mercy of the weather. Glad you made it home safely and that you didn't have to dig your car out at 2am!!

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  16. Oh sweet friend. What a debacle. Mercy!!!! It does look like some wonderful connecting and family time though! What special memories. I am glad you made it home safe and sound.

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    1. Thank you so much! By Friday night with that last delayed flight I did think myself, Evan, and even my husband (who was stuck at home unable to help) were going to lose it.

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  17. It sounds like the perfect collision of great fun and joy with the family and horrible happenings with the blizzard, delays and parking. At least you were somewhere nice, not having to worry about hotels during your delay but that's not a heck of a lot of consolation. I'm glad you finally made it home.

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  18. Looks like a great trip! So sorry you guys had to deal with canceled flights!! Glad you finally made it home!

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    1. Aw, thank you! It was such a relief to finally take off and head for home just to know I could stop thinking about all the what if's.

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  19. I'm glad you were able to finally make it home. There really is no place like home. It seems like you made the most of a bad situation!

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  20. What an adventure that turned into! It must have been so stressful trying to sort out flights and being stuck longer than planned, but it sounds like you made the best of it and still had some really lovely family time. I read the words blizzard, flight, and bumpy and broke out in a sweat! So glad you made it home safe :)

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    1. Yeah, it is very unsettling when they have to deice the plane before take-off...

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  21. Great pictures...Thanks for sharing...At least you were staying with your mom and not stuck in an airport with no where to go...Thanks so much for all your visits ad kind words..I am playing catch up on my return visits...
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    1. Thank you! I was so thankful to be "stuck" with parents and not at an airport somewhere!

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  22. Gosh, I'm sore you both wanted to remember that trip in another way! But nice that you spend time with your family

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    1. My mom keeps joking she's afraid we'll never want to visit again... I do think I might drive next time though!

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  23. Looks like a great trip though it must have been a bit unpleasant to not be able to home when you planned.

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  24. Joanne, this was such a fun read 😊 I loved following along with your trip and all the special moments you shared. It sounds like such a memorable adventure and you tell it in that lovely warm way that makes it feel like we were right there with you. Definitely left me smiling 💕✨

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    1. Aw, thank you! It was definitely a memorable adventure.

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  25. 3 feet of snow?! Wow! Everyone starts panicking if we have 3cms here in the UK, we can't cope with it! So glad you had a lovely family meet up (aside from the getting home bit) - though always nice to climb back into your own bed! Those crepes look amazing too! Sim x #SSPS

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    1. Yep, 3 feet-- it sounds like the storms we used to get when I was a kid! We hadn't had snowfall like that in years though.

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  26. Wow! What a range of emotions with this snow situation. So sorry you had to endure all the craziness of getting home but glad you got valuable time with family.

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  27. I felt myself getting so stressed as I read all the details of your week away. I'm sure the added time with family was a gift for you all but having to figure out travel arrangements over and over and never being certain of when you'd actually board - plus the added cost - must have kept you from completely relaxing! I'm so glad you were somewhere safe with people you love all week and that you eventually made it home safely. You'll definitely have a story to tell in the years ahead and I'm also sure home never felt so great! Your husband must have been so happy to have you home!

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    1. Yeah, I felt like once Monday afternoon hit I was pretty darn anxious until our plane actually left the runway on Friday night. I literally woke him up at 2am just to hug him and let him know I was home.

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  28. Oh My Gosh! I am so glad you made it home. What an ordeal! It's not fun having to cancel and find other flights etc. And doing it all on the phone. Ugh!
    Your family visit was wonderful and you did lots of things. How wonderful.
    Home Sweet Home never felt so good!

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    1. Yes! I never wished I had brought a laptop with me on vacation more than when I was trying to re-book on my phone!

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  29. Enjoyed the photos. I'm sorry the weather made your travel so hard. My daughter works in reservations for an airline. When storms roll in, they are given mandatory overtime.

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    1. Aw, thank you; I tried so hard to keep my cool and not take any frustrations out with the airline workers since I knew they were not at fault (and I'm sure she has some stories!)... but I'm honest enough to admit it was difficult at times.

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  30. Oh no.. sorry you had so many flight delays. The winter storm messed with a lot of peoples plans. My friend was flying home from india. She got stuck in Turkey, rerouted to Houston where she had to spend two days in a hotel before coming home.

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  31. I’m so sorry about the airline woes. I’m glad you had a good visit though.
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  32. I'm glad you had a good (albeit extended!) vacation with family! We are about 3 hours from Wilmington and Brunswick county is one of my favorite places! I also LOVE Southport, my daughter lived in Oak Island for awhile and we loved going to Southport and eating at Provision. I'm glad he got some cousin time before starting school!

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    1. We have family in Leland, Bolivia, Rocky Point, & Supply but my aunt has lived in quite a few places all around/in/near Wilmington my entire life so pockets of places here and there are quite familiar to me.

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  33. Ugh, so sorry to hear about this travel nightmare. Thank goodness you were with family. I have thought many times about how we would have been stuck in NYC if we had travelled a week later!

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    1. Yes, you really timed your trip perfectly between freezing cold temps and a blizzard you lucked out!

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  34. A memorable trip for sure! I know you were ready to be home, but glad you had some extra time with family.

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    1. Oh yes, I was so ready to be home... mostly just so I could stop thinking about HOW we were going to get home.

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  35. Oh wow, what an ordeal! I know y'all were so happy to finally be home after going through all that. It looks like y'all had a pretty good time while you were there, though. I love the pictures!

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    1. We did have a great time while we were there! Though we running out of ideas for indoor activities.

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