Currently in May
It's the first Monday of the month and time for the currently link up with Jennifer. This month we'll be talking about what we're currently loving, looking forward to, leaving behind, letting go of, and looking at.
Loving: Having whole family dinners now that Alec is back home. We also had a lovely belated birthday party for Ian this past weekend.
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Alec has been planting seeds, we sorted through all the totes he brought home from college and already started re-packing for next year. He's back at work and settling into being home with us. |
Looking forward to: This is the time of year my attention turns to our yard, deck, and patio. I am looking forward to eating outside and soaking in the sunshine. I also can't wait for the flowers to start blooming-- we have some early blooms like forsythia already.
Leaving behind: I sure hope we're leaving all the ice and snow behind us for spring and summer; we did have a couple of small storms in April.
Letting go of: All expectations. It's something I've been working on for years; once my boys became teenagers and then young adults I knew that their schedules were not mine to micromanage so I try not to have any expectations when it comes to holidays, vacations, together times. That way I can enjoy the time we spend together without disappointment. I can't say I've got it down 100% yet but I'm pretty close.
Looking at: I have been spending lots of time at my crafting desk working on cards and scrapbook pages. I'm always on Pinterest and YouTube looking for cute card making ideas.
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Managing expectations is a work in progress and I think it's something we'll have to do at all stages of our kids' lives from when they're teenagers to young adults to when(/if) they get married and have their own families, etc. Great pictures of Ian and his cake- I hope he had a great birthday!
ReplyDeleteDefinitely! Ian had a lovely birthday party, thank you.
DeleteThat cake is gorgeous!
ReplyDeleteI am also trying to spruce up my outside space and anxiously waiting for Tom to finish my deck so I have a sunny place to read! I can't wait!
Aw, thanks! I made and decorated that myself (my baker was apparently on strike).
DeleteI love the pictures of Alec, and hearing how he's already re-packed some of the totes for next semester. It's good that he's settling in, and that cake is stunning! Hopefully it's warmer, sunnier days ahead! The expectations thing is hard; I'm always working on that as well. Have a great day, friend!
ReplyDeleteHe is definitely settling in well and really hit the ground running already returning to work.
DeleteIan's birthday cake is stunning... I'm guessing it tasted delicious, too! I completely understand the joy of "whole family dinners" - they become such a gift, don't they? And, I couldn't agree more... letting go of expectations is hard to do and it's something I continue to work on, too. I enjoy an experience so much more when I do! Have a good day!
ReplyDeleteIt did taste delicious; it was a chocolate cake with peanut butter frosting. Yes, I find I enjoy most experiences so much when I have zero expectations going in.
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ReplyDeleteFamily dinners are always special, and a belated birthday celebration is a great way to make memories. Letting go of expectations is a wise approach, and it's great that you're finding more peace in that. Happy crafting.
Thank you!
DeleteI'm so ready to leave behind all the snow & ice & cold... give me some beautiful blooming flowers too!
ReplyDeleteYes! I am always ready for flip flop weather.
DeleteYour letting go of is very smart.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteIt is always so great to have everyone home. Mama's hearts are the happiest just in time for Mother's Day.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely! Which is good since it seems like 2 of the 3 will be working that day.
DeleteI love that gorgeous birthday cake! It's so nice when the kids come back from college. We hated move out day and then sorting through everything. It's so nice to have family dinners too. I hope you have a wonderful Mother's day.
ReplyDeleteThank you! Ugh, move out day nearly did me in-- he's on the 5th floor and we parked a block and a half away (the closest we could get) so I really got a workout in.
DeleteOh managing expectations is a GREAT one- work in progress here too
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteHow lovely to have everyone home and to celebrate Ian's birthday! That cake looks amazing!
ReplyDeleteI hope the weather does start to improve, we had a gorgeous week last week but this week is chilly again.
I have realised now that my girls are older and they are off doing their own thing the time we do spend together has become more meaningful.
Aw, thank you! He really wanted his favorite chocolate cake with peanut butter frosting.
DeleteLetting go of expectations is such a wise thing to do. I used to feel constantly let down because my expectations were always too high for anything and everything, and since I started letting go of those expectations, I've found that everything is so much more enjoyable!
ReplyDeleteOh me too! I'm just sad it took me so many years to realize it!
DeleteIt all sounds good. I need to let go of expectations as well. I'm getting better at it but still need a reminder. Looks like a good May so far. That cake is gorgeous!
ReplyDeleteThank you! It has been a good May so far.
DeleteThat birthday cake looks so yummy!
ReplyDeleteLetting go of expectations...that is something I am learning to do. 💜
Thank you! I was pretty proud of how it turned out. My cake decorating skills are rather rusty after years of not having to do it.
DeleteWhat a pretty cake! Happy birthday to your son! Hope you enjoy the new rhythms of a college student returning home and time with your family this summer. The temperature here needs to get on board, no snow but it's cool here this week and I need the lake to warm up. Keeping our expectations in check is a lifelong challenge I think : ) Happy Mother's Day to you!
ReplyDeleteThank you! We had a pretty cold and rainy week this week too.
DeleteI just realized I haven't been getting your emails lately telling about a new blog post. Can you check to make sure I'm still on your email list (jtouchofstyle@gmail.com)?
ReplyDeleteI always love seeing the cards you've made. I miss doing that at times,
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DeleteI love the cake and birthday celebration. Leaving expectations behind is so hard, but family life is happier when I can manage to make it happen! Beautiful cards!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteHi Joanne, as always I'm in awe of your lake view! Gorgeous birthday cake (so clever!) and belated Happy Birthday to your son! I'm sure you'll be enjoying warm weather, flowers and green grass again soon. Those cards you're making are so good! Thank you for linking up with #WWWhimsy xo
ReplyDeleteAw, thank you!
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